If you as a female, let him "hit it", with no knowledge of his intentions, then HE has no fault for what he's doing.

Let's face it, a woman that plays hard to get, rarely gets fucked and dumped. Not saying if u sleep on firsr date is bad or ur a slut..no no.. it doesn't make u a slut nor bad.. however, it's a risk u take..a guy that has to work hard and impress u, is typically not the kind to "hit and quit".

It's a risk u take when looking for a potential partner or just some fun..

It's a judgment call on ur part as a woman. Often times we miss the ques that scream "fuck boy" and just go along with it, then bam- he's avoiding u, because he got what he wanted.

I slept with my now husband, firsr night I saw him. But it was based on what info I accumulated from him and his home. For example, on his library shelfs, he had about 9 books for IT certifications. Something that I myself had and knew inside and out. From there, the conversation was easy to figure out- he was the biggest geek I ever met, just like myself. Found that that night, that he worked for Microsoft... and me being a geek, that was literally the reason I slept with him. We moved in together in a new apartment, the moment our leases were up, oddly enough 3 months into us dating. The rest is history. 6 years later, we own our home out right, are married an have a 9 month old daughter. And still very much in love. While I did sleep with him on firsr date... I made some serious jugnebt calls . I KNEW he was meant for me..

Fuck boys give a certain vibe and often it's easily missed. I don't blame them for having their "game", I just think that If we took more time to analyze the attitude and actions, rather than their charismatic ways, lots of us would know to avoid the "hit it and quit it" type.

Hitting it and quitting it

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