Advice on trying

Desperately trying to conceive our rainbow (2nd child) both taking prenatal vitamins, have a balanced diet with lots of fruit & veg and were BD everyday through ovulation week, everyone keeps telling me to just let it do its thing and I'll get pregnant when the time is right but I can't help thinking about it all the time, did you ladies still manage to conceive when you were actually trying or when you least expected it to happen? 🌈