How to I get my man to get rough?

Question

Alright ladies, so I'm really into rough, kinky sex and BDSM and I'm constantly trying to get my man to give it to me like that. He always struggles to turn me on and I've told him what to do so many times (ie slam me against a wall etc 😂) he knows what I like but won't do what I want him to do because he's got too much of a gentle nature which is great and I'm not complaining, I'm just so sexually frustrated because I want to be damn well tied up and choked 😂
How can I really get him into this?

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Similar problem over here. Our problems come from some shame/embarrassment on his side. I've found that giving him a book or short story that has a scene I want to try is a good starting point. I'm hopeful that the more we talk about it the less I will find myself having to tell him what I want.

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Might just not be sexually compatible. If talking to him about it doesn't work, it's probably unlikely that he'll ever enjoy it.

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Get toys that would have to used on you. Get a blind fold for you. Maybe he's a little shy. So by you being covered it could help him.

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I have this problem too. I basically have to ask for what I want in the moment which feels a bit like topping from the bottom but he's happy to oblige. I just hope someday he starts doing it on his own

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Just sit down and talk to him about it

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I have the same problem :( We've never had a role-play EVERRR. My man is really gentle on me and doesn't wanna hurt me or anything like that. I've always wanted to try the kidnap role play and or be submissive to him but he's just too gentle. What should I do?!

How to I get my man to get rough?

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