I went to a bridal shower yesterday, and my sister in law, who has a three year old and a five month old (only one was planned), sits there and starts complaining about how "it's so hard having kids" then a cousin pipes in and says the same thing. They, along with a bunch if others, proceed to complain for over an hour about how hard it is. All the while I'm sitting there, I had nowhere to go I was stuck in the corner seat between people, thinking " do you understand what I would give to have half of what you have right now" it's so frustrating to hear people complaining about having children when I sit here every month getting my heartbroken with every negative test. On top of it all I got asked by FOUR different people when we were having kids. My husband and I have been trying for over a year, and have gone through all the testing, I've had surgery ( I have endometriosis), and the next step is a fertility specialist. I'm so frustrated, I literally cried myself to sleep last night.