My husband and I discussed a threesome in our future but we also discussed the fact that I should look for the girl . Well today I picked up his phone which I have the password too and he knows . But I see that he was on POF (dating site) which pissed me off immediately! Because I think why is he on there . So I'm left with 3 options because we have had this discussion too many times before where he shouldn't be on there unless he trying to find his dead granny so option 1 - should I confront him and leave

2 should I just leave it

3 should I kill him !

P.s I haven't said anything to him yet I left to go to the gym to get some frustration out fist before I go to jail.