I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and the sex has just been getting worse and worse. I havent finished with him in weeks. It's at the point where I can't even get myself off when I'm alone most of the time. I'm attracted to him and he said he'll do whatever I want if I think it's going to help me, but i really don't know what's going on. I've been with 2 people in my past who I've just clicked with sexually. I havent been able to help anyone who wasn't naturally gifted with the ability to please me. I can't think of specific things that he can alter or add in and I'm so lost. It's even worse since my "alone time" is also being effected. My sex drive is just gone since i know I'm never going to get my big finish. Even when I can make myself cum it's not the explosive black out orgasms that I've had in the past. Im giving up hope. Any suggestions are welcome, thank you so much for reading this.