Healthy discharge?

Hi ladies, I have a quick question. How do you get healthy discharge? How long do you usually discharge? Because I feel like I'm always freaking discharging and it's so annoying. Before and after my period. All the time!

Does that mean I am unhealthy?

Also, TMI, my discharge switches back and forth between milky mucus looking and like.. little blobs. Idk how to explain the second but I feel gross.

I can't be intimate with my husband so please what can I do to stop this?