My boyfriend and I are very happy. he's had a very difficult childhood and i don't exactly see eye to eye with his mom nor do i agree with how she treats her own kids. yes, they're all grown adults.. but you're their mother. you shouldn't be telling them straight up they're fat over and over "like really fat". or that they're not going anywhere in life.. or that they can't do something because they're not smart enough. and i don't wanna hear that i look like shit everytime i see her.

when i told her i was pregnant she said "oh finally.. theres a lot of money in kids now" first of all.. I'm 20 & my boyfriends 21. second of all.. Theres no gaining money having kids and what a horrible thing to say.

his brothers know zero boundries and his mom is the most negative person you'll ever meet. The world is out to get her. My miscarriage was apparently more heartbreaking to her than it was to me 😡

anyways.. all of this puts stress on our relationship and my current pregnancy to the point we're at eachother for days after we leave her house because I'm trying to talk to my bf about how frustrating and difficult it is to spend a weekend there and why its so hard. and now she wants us to move in after i have the baby so she can help. HELL NO.

Idk what i was getting at with this.. maybe i just needed to vent. but if you have any suggestions to help deal with inlaws.shoot away

end of rant