How many dates before you had "the talk" about whether or not it is a relationship?

Question

Single mom dating single dad here. I've been out of the whole dating universe for a long time now (4+ years thanks to baby) and I find myself at a loss when it comes to this kinda stuff. I've started seeing this guy and we've been on quite a few dates now, and I'm starting to get quite comfortable with him. The biggest problem is that I don't know how one would even broach this subject and/or when is any appropriate time to. Ideas/ advice welcome!

Answer

If you're nervous to talk about it let him bring it up. I didn't even have it on my mind (we had only hung out once and then we had sex) and after sex he wanted to be more than whatever we were doing so he asked. But if you don't want to wait just ask "So what's going on here with us?" Or something like that.

Answer

Just ask. Don't be nervous. It's good to be on the same page with each other.

How many dates before you had "the talk" about whether or not it is a relationship?

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