Difficult time in marriage

Courtney • 26-married-TTC-forever hopeful

To some this may not be interesting, just looking for a different point of view.

My husband and I have been married for 7 years. During those 7 years he went to school and took a job that pulled me out of my close knit family and job of 5 years. (his family is not close). So, we moved 14 hours away. We somehow managed to move within 3 hours of our family a year later and had a son 2 years ago. Now, we are facing another possible move for a better job position.

Over the years I have expressed my wanting to be with my family and I feel most fulfilled seeing our son interact with them, and feel our relationship is less strained being near them, as most of the child rearing load is on me.

I have never said no to my husband, he has and does what he wants for the most part. Golf, nice car, football tickets, big tv. Dinner, semi- happy wife, and adorable son. What gives?

When we met it was obvious I was happy with my family, I was never alone, enjoyed being independent in my work. Then we get married and he said we would be near them. And continuous promises of coming back over the 5 tumultuous year prior to our son. I prayed for things to be stable, no more moving when my son came, unless it was closer. But it was worse, the first year of his life filled me with disappointments with my husband and filled me with resentment and I feel as though this is the last straw. I don't know what to do. Any input or questions would be helpful.

Apologize for this being long didn't intend for that.