my husband and i got new neighbors a few months ago. last month in june, i gave birth to my 3rd child, 2nd child by my husband. a few days after i got home from the hospital with our daughter he wanted to drink with the neighbor and her friend. i didnt want him too. he did it anyways and ny neighbor ended up kissing him. he kissed back but never told me. then a few days after that he was at her house with our 2 boys while i had our daughter at a doctors appointment cause her belly button was bleeding due to her cord coming off too early. they had sex.... then the day after that i had errands to do so he took one of our sons over there and they had sex again. i just found out a few days ago. my husband told me everything. i confronted my neighbor who denied it. and it all hurts so bad. he never even thought about cheating or thought of her in that way until she kissed him. and thats all it took to ruin our marriage. i want to leave him so bad but with 3 kids, 2 of them his and us being married it isnt as easy as it seems. i do know we will never get past this. im upset over it all. him not telling me she kissed him, him having sex with her not once but twice, and not telling me. him coming home to me and having sex with me. him letting me be friends with her knowing she had sex with him. her telling me about them having sex but said it was the guy down the street. her denying it. him telling his couisn who i absolulty hate, his cousin even said to hook him up too. and it is all so hard. i wanna tell her boyfriend but i dont want it to cause anymore problems because we are neighbors with the same landlord. but i need to tell him something, so i want to tell him about another guy she had at his house fucking. i even have proof to show him. im just in so much pain.