Too busy to concieve.... *Warning.. long post*

Destinie • Redhead. Mom of two. Newly inlove. Christian.

My fiance and I have finally decided to start TTC for baby number 2... thing is we are intimate maybe once a month due to busy schedules. Let me explain... I live with my mom, her parents, her brother and my 2 younger siblings. I have custody of my son so he lives with me. My fiance lives in an apartment alone. I'm always busy, whether it be doctor appointments or therapy sessions for my son I literally have no time to myself. My fiance works the graveyard shift from 6pm til 6am Monday through Friday and sometimes Saturday. He sleeps in until 2pm and leaves for work at 4:30/5pm. I get to see him maybe three or four times a month and that's including dates and family days together. What time I do get with him he's exhausted and almost always falls asleep on me. Well lately we've been talking and decided it's time to give our son a little sibling but our schedules just clash. When we do get to do the dirty it's usually after or before my fertile window. I'm just getting really frustrated and discouraged. Anybody have any advice that maybe we could try?