Boyfriend Upset About Weight Gain
Ok first let me start with a pre-rant note: I've been dating my boyfriend for two years now, we have arguments about things like every other couple out there just trying to make life work.
Rant: Today my boyfriend was upset from the moment he woke up till the moment he made me cry. He kept on telling me it was nothing, acting distant while out with friends (listening to music, resting bitch face, pretty much ignoring the world) , so when we get home and I ask him what's wrong again, he proceeds to tell me he isn't happy in this relationship and is sick of the arguing and stuff but I'm like we argue over stupid shit and get over it like every other couple out there so that can't be it, AND THEN HE HITS ME WITH...this is going to sound insensitive but I'm disappointed that you gained weight. LETS BACKTRACK A MOMENT
(Ive recently moved 900miles away to Florida to work as a Cast Member at Disney World there, before hand let's say about October 2016 I was upset about my weight gain and since my boyfriend is ripped I thought I take his advice and lose some weight and eat right and go to the gym. I went from 198lbs to 169lbs at my lowest right.) I was 175lbs when I met him
Continue on: I went back up to 176lbs as of today, he just wants me to work out more because he was liking how I was beginning to look, and see I love this man so much, of course I would rather not be overweight, I want to lose weight but I've been on a yoyo weight loss since 2014 I'm just hurt he said this is there something wrong with me? Or do I have a right to be hurt? Even if I did lose weight before, I'm currently on ANOTHER DIET...idk what to do... I love him but he became so shallow after I gained the weight back... he never acted like this before idk
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