Jealous baby daddy Orr...

Recently me & my unborns father broken up and I'm the one who ended it. I still try to be mature and start trying to have a coparent relationship and speak only about the child. Keep in mind he hasn't done anything for my daughter since I found out I was pregnant 19 weeks ago. This includes going to any appointments, U/S, buying her anything to prepare .. which is one of the reasons I ended things, on top of the fact that we never got along and it was extremely toxic. We had a discussion tonight and I mentioned that it's best to see other people when we feel we're ready to move on, and that I wouldn't mind to have my daughter around somebody else as long as nobody tried to act as a mother or potentially try to replace me in my own child's life. He then got extremely angry and said "Whatever fuck whoever you meet I swear to god if you have another guy around my daughter I will spaz and dude will get his shit beat. Don't have him around my child and there is no problems" I had no idea what to say so I left the conversation..I was trying to be mature and potentially do what's best for my daughter. I can't tell if he's jealous, insecure, or just mad about the breakup in general! Also keep in mind he gets angry when I'm busy and can't see him. I've been extremely busy with multiple job interviews trying to find employment for my daughter so I can save more money, and he doesn't get that. he wants to argue about it and make me feel wrong for trying to do what's right. He wants me to be able to see him more, but I am trying to get things straightened out for her so we don't struggle. And he doesn't get that whatsoever. It's almost like he try's to control my every move but he has never been that way before,