So, a decade ago, when I was in high school and had just transferred to a new school I was flirting with a boy I was crushing hard on. He made a rude comment to me about what he thought my nipples looked like, and objectively he was right about them (despite the fact that he'd never seen my naked body). Without ever seeing me, he instilled an idea in my mind that I have never been able to shake...that there was something wrong with my perfectly healthy breasts. Now, as I said, 10 years later I have carried this thought with me throughout every sexual experience I've ever had. I have gotten so nervous about taking off my shirt in front of a new partner that I apologize in advance for how I'm about to disappoint them. I have since stopped myself from doing that, but I still have the strong urge to every single time.

So what I want to know is...what do your nipples look like?! I'd love to redefine what "good" and "normal" looks like to me, and learn how to love my boobs!!