so about a month ago we got engaged and planned our wedding for 8/11/18. We are having it on family property but are doing every little thing ourselves (TONS OF STUFF ). three weeks ago found out we are pregnant ( 7 weeks now due 3/26/18). my daughter lives with us in a tiny two bedroom house with literally no room for a baby (tons of pets too), my parents rent us our house now. we made the decision to buy a bigger house. all sounds wonderful in theory. well our new house needs to totally be redone, it's just like 32 years old nothing has changed. We just purchased all the stuff too do the upstairs of the house. during the time we are fixing up our new house we are moving back in with my parents. they plan to totally gut and redo the house we've been renting. We are super busy people as it is with my fiancee working 70 hours a week and now he wants side work. I've been asking him to do the same stuff for months and months and nothing ever gets done because he's to tired, to much to do, or doesn't have enough time. I want to push back the wedding another year so we can get the house done and move in and then have the baby. if he doesn't have time now when does he plan to do the rest of this shit. he doesn't want to/ refuses to hire contracted or we are doing the entire house alone too. he is really pissed off at me and we aren't talking because I want to put the wedding off. he doesn't understand how this can be to much on a pregnant woman either and he thinks I just don't want to be with him even though I told him that's not it. ham I wrong for wanting to wait a little longer? plus then I don't feel pressured to bounce right back to my body now