What would you do?

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I recently had a miscarriage and told my fiancé I am not ready to try again. He seemed to understand, until the next night... he decided to just shoot his load in me anyway! 
This is a MAJOR deal for me because 1. That's super disrespectful 2. I have a history with Anorexia Nervosa, so trusting people with my body is hard to begin with and 3. We had a conversation the night after I told him I did not want to TTC again, about me feeling untrusted. He has trust issues because of a previous relationship and has become very controlling....
Please help.... 
What would you do?

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I would go on birth control and then have a really serious talk with him. Let him know that his actions hurt and affected you. It may have been an accident, Idk, but definitely let him know it was not ok.

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I would get on birth control of some kind and find counseling or therapy to work through this together.

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So, does he think getting  u pregnant  will keep you? is that  his reasoning? Because  thats super creepy and I'd  want him gone.    I'd  have to have a long convo   with him... tell him ur reasonings  why you  dont want to try and concieve, and he can give his reasonings  of why he does (some guys blame themselves if a m/c happens) . Maybe  there's  a  miscommunication  somewhere.   But  If you're dead set on not wanting to try, I'd  try out birth control.

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Well I would start by not having unprotected sex. Take birth control or use condoms...don't rely on the pull out method.
And have a serious talk with him.
He might not have thought about finishing leading to pregnancy. Did he say he was trying to get you pregnant. Maybe he thought that you weren't trying but whatever happens happens.
Have a talk with him.

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You should sort out some contraception that you can control e.g. The pill or an iud then perhaps get some couples counselling.

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