Some backstory, 18 years old, moving to college 3.5 hrs away on Sunday, mom has been with my step dad for awhile I can't remember how long.

Anyways, I'm watching Netflix in my room in the basement, grandma, grandpa and mom all upstairs watching tv or something, its 9:30 pm and I hear a knock on my door. My stepdad asks if I have a minute.

At this point, I'm already aggravated because I have to pause Reign and talk to the guy.

Opened my door and I'm like "what??" He kinda looks in my room like I might have someone there (I used to sneak my current boyfriend of one year over so I thought maybe that's why he was looking in). He asked to talk, I was like ok? U gonna talk then? Like I just paused Netflix, he said yea I wanted to talk about how you've been acting lately ...and just ... u know.... us....,

Me confused as fuck: what??

Me in my head as well: I wonder if it's because he knows I smoke weed?

He said its about.. you know... did you wanna have sex?

And I was so taken aback I was like uh. No. And then he said alright and I closed my door fast as hell. All I can say is WHAT THE FUCK? I'm creeped out really. I spam texted my bf and then he called me telling me to explain wtf just happened. He doesn't even know what to say either bc we are both so fucking grossed out.

Now idk when to tell my mom! I move on Sunday and he's helping us move my stuff and he took off work too. Its Wednesday night, on Friday and Saturday they both go to work together.

Also, I want to say that I haven't done or given ANY signals to the guy that I've been wanting to fuck. Right after I closed my door, I realized why he's been hanging around my room and in the basement so much lately. And this was probably why he called me a few nights ago at 2am! I was in my room on my phone and he calls me but I can hear him watching tv in the other side of the basement.

I really need to tell my mom but I have no idea when. I don't want to tell her right after she drops me off at my dorm bc then she'll be stuck in the car with the guy for 3 hours. He helps pay bills and helps around the house and gives my mom company. Once I move, its only going to be her and our small dog. My grandparents move back to our home country right after I move. So wtf??!! I don't want my mom staying home with this creep! Helppp this shit actually just happened I still can't believe it. Seriously did the guy think he was gonna have a happy ending in a porn vid? What the fuck!

Update: couple hours later I'm talking with my mom, she's on my side but I wanted her to like make him leave but she said this is more complicated because he helps with bills. Idk we agreed he's a creep. He said at one point I took a shower when he and I were home alone and when I was out I was like "I'm eighteen!!!" And he has been bugged about that this entire time. I turned 18 in April and I really am entirely sure I did NOT say that with such intentions. He said the thought has been bugging him and he wanted to clear the air. Wtf. Just wtf. I'm so grossed out.

Anyways, thanks everyone for helping me. If there are any updates to come I'll let u guys know.

Update 8-11-17: she kicked him out

Update 8-14-17: I think she said she's talking to him again but only because she lost a friend and help with bills so I understand her perspective. She's gonna be home by herself completely if he's gone and I'm at college and she gets bad anxiety. It sucks, I want him to go away but I want my mom to find a friend that will replace him and me or something idk. That's all, I'm done updating lol this actually happened I still can't believe it but alrighty