im a 16 year old girl. im a state champion in taekwondo. i have never had sex in my life, nor have i ever even been kissed because of how dedicated i am. and like 2 days ago i found out i got a hernia right in my groin area.

honestly i thought hernias only happened to old men.

and i kinda did some research and found out that i need to get surgery with the down time of about 4 weeks. and i feel like this could ruin my taekwondo career. also i found out that i most likely have a hernia at such a young age because i was born with weak muscles.

so now i lowkey feel like my life is turning upside down