Would you be upset if your SO told you that you started gaining weight and you should lose some?

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I would actually want him to tell me so I can do something about it because I don't see it myself unless it's a lot

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I would be happy he cares about my health!

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I'd want him to tell me!

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I'd be so pissed and upset if my man said that!! Like I know I've packed on a few pounds since the beginning of our relationship, but so has he, and I would never tell him he needs to loose weight. I love him just the way he is and I love myself just the way I am 🙂

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I think it depends on the circumstance. If you're gaining because you're pregnant and they're like "you need to lose that baby weight or I'm gonna leave you", that's not okay. But if you're not pregnant and you're gaining because you're not eating a healthy diet or exercising and they're like "I think starting Monday we should get back on the healthy bandwagon", that's more acceptable.

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I would feel bad that I let my self go. I would actually apologise to my boyfriend for being lazy. I know that sounds weird. And I know he would still love me even if I did gain weight but I would be shocked that I let my self get to that point. I have a healthy body for me, no one else.

Would you be upset if your SO told you that you started gaining weight and you should lose some?

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