When TTC for a long time and someone says " it will happen when it's meant to happen"

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I'll be honest, it pisses me right off. They don't know the struggles, the heartbreak, or the frustration. And it's especially angering when someone responds to your miscarriage with "It just wasn't meant to be." Or "Maybe it's for the best." Ooh, or my personal favorite, "What did you do to cause it?"

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it took me 4 years & two miscarriages & thats all i heard along with "stop trying so hard" all those things made me mad cause they didn't understand the constant pain & struggle i felt. but i got pregnant this time around after i chilled out & stressed less. id say do whatever you feel is best for you

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you know I had a miscarriage in January and I was trying ever since then to conceive and I would get told it'll happen when God wants you to be pregnant I used to get discouraged I'm not going to lie so I try things like fertility blend which stopped me from ovulating and stopped me from having too. So that really freaked me out then I tried premama and pregprep and prayed a lot and I have sisters from the church also pray with me and then I asked the Lord that it be his will I got married to my now husband and the sisters told me that the Lord would bless me from being obedient I believe that the reason I am pregnant today 5 weeks 3 days is because I prayed and prayed and prayed and prayed and prayed that the Lord would bless my womb I asked God to send me an angel from heaven and I talked to the baby as if it was already part of me I believe that prayer can change all things and I do request premama and pregprep to anybody trying to conceive before trying things like Clomid I wish you the best of luck in the name of Jesus you conceive soon

When TTC for a long time and someone says " it will happen when it's meant to happen"

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