Here in this picture is myself with my at the time 4 year old step son (he's 5 now!!). Just look at that sweet smile full of happiness and joy!!

Here is my step son and my son with my husband holding the both of them! They have only been together in person 2 times and that was their second time. The first time was when he was a month old, my son is now 8 months.

Every day goes by and I wish we could just talk to him and see his sweet face!! Unfortunately, his momma disagrees.

I am so heartbroken! There's so much love to go around and it's not being allowed...

When a couple separates and has a child involved and they have court papers agreeing that both parents will be in the child's life at all times to perform duties of a parent, that's how it's supposed to be!

In this case, it's not. My husbands baby momma is keeping the child hostage because she feels in her interest that it's the best that her child doesn't learn his father has a family and is happy. At the time that we had the son for visitation LAST YEAR! I was pregnant but barely showing. We told him that he was going to have a baby brother but he quite didn't understand because he was 4. So, when he was down, it was just him, his dad, and I. My husbands baby momma said that it hurt her feelings to see him with his own family because that's what they should've been. But let me tell you... while she was down to drop off her son, she was sleeping with 4 different men!! All while my husband is "the bad guy."

I'm not here to talk bad about her! But I do want to rant that I have so much love for her child and not a day goes by that I don't think of him. When I contact her, she is sooo ugly and always says that I don't have any right to ask about the well being of her son. She also sent me pictures of court papers that said only herself and my husband could discuss the son. I didn't ask anything personal! I just told her to be on the look out for a package that my son was sending his brother! The situation is just bad! There's so much to say but I cannot even fit onto here nor the stillness to just sit here and tell you how awful it is!!

If you're a step parent, how do you and your step child's parent get along?

If you are a mom that has a child with his step mother involved, how do y'all get along?

I'd appreciate any prayers you send our way!! 💕