Currently have a 14 month old and I am living with my in-laws. My mother in law and I get along well, but my father in law is incredibly disrespectful to me and doesn't respect that I am my daughters mother and I make her choices. I love her to pieces and I want to raise her and spend my time with her. He gets so jealous that he will get mad at me for not letting him take her to the store or over to his relatives... 4 times this year he has yelled at me so abusively and called me names. The other night it was so bad that my husband and I left to drive around with the baby to relax. And just like every time we come back, he acts like nothing happens! I don't know how much I can endure.. if we had the means to move out I would ( but we currently pay the mortgage).. and my husband feels like he is in the middle and wants me to trust him to know it's going to be ok. I'm just so upset and don't know how to handle this..