So I've been in this relationship with my boyfriend for 4 months and we haven't had sex yet . he expressed to me that he had a thought that he had herpes he got tested and it came back that he had herpes 1 I've been doing my research but this is all too much to cope with I love him so dearly much but idk what to do about our sex life I've been waiting for the moment to just give it all to him and now this. I'm stuck because ive been in a similar situation where I contracted an std from my ex but he didn't know so I had it and when I got tested it for it I had it and got treated for it . I plan on stay with my bf in the future so should I just say fuck it and still have protected sex with him and get tested we've talked about this but I don't wanna stress him out