Why doesn't he want to have sex?

Question

My husband and I have been married for 8 1/2 years. We just started seriously trying a couple months ago. Anyways lately he comes home from work eats and passes out. I told him this is really important I also told him it makes me feel like he's not attracted to me. He always promises it's not true and we will  do the thing tomorrow. why is this happening?? The fertile window is only so big . I'm stressing out so bad!!

Answer

He may be feeling a bit daunted by the whole idea of TTC? My husband and I have great sex until we decide to try for a baby and bam, he hits the brakes in the love department! He told me that he feels a lot of pressure to perform and is nervous about us taking a long time to conceive despite our efforts. He also does manual labour for a living and so the idea of having sex everyday of the fertile window sounds exhausting to him! Ha :D he very much wants to have a baby, just wishes it would be as easy for us as some other couples. Because it's not, it stresses him. 
Have you asked your fella if he's worried about it?

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If you're stressed he probably is too.

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That happened to me a while ago. He works long hours and very hard work. But I was also on BC so I wasn't dying for it either. Now that I'm off he's gone out of state for work and we're both going crazy!

Why doesn't he want to have sex?

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