Hi,

I'm Connor, I'm 23, FTM and my partner (cis-male) and I have been having unprotected sex the last month.

My cycles are usually 26-28 days, average probably being 27, and last 3 days. My last one was from 20/07-23/07. I'm due sometime this week.

I guess it's also important to mention that no, I am not on hormones. However, I used to be. I was on them from 02/14-04/16 (just over 2 years), and then I stopped because I decided one day I'd like to get pregnant. I've been off them for around 1 year and 4 months? So yeah, I'm honestly not sure if I'm fertile or not.

Anyway, I'm not positive we had unprotected sex during the "fertility window" or not but there's definitely a chance we could have. (Even though I know I can get pregnant at any time of the cycle).

Anyway, I woke up at 4am with terrible cramping and, because I have IBS, I'm used to this. I usually just have to sit on the toilet for a while (I'm sure you catch my drift!) until I get everything out of my system, but this time I vomited violently, 4 times, whilst simultaneously having diarrhoea. (I know that's gross, sorry!).

I pretty much never vomit, unless I've been drinking alcohol. The last time I vomited from food consumption (I have coeliac disease as well), was when I was a very young kid.

So, I guess I'm naturally a little nervous. My partner and I aren't actively trying to get pregnant, we're just being risky and will be happy regardless of the outcome. It's just still nerve wracking!!