The key to making a guy feel manly during sex

At least this is what i do. I can get pretty kinky & i find myself leading the way that the rounds go but i do it all while being so submissive to make him feel like it's all him but it also gives him ideas to feed off. Idk i get mine he DEFINITELY gets him (more than once 😜) this was just on my mind right now.

I was thinking of this guy i'm getting feelings for & last time we had sex (our first time with eachother) it was so slow & intense not like anything i've ever experienced since i always have rough sex even my first time we i was so satisfied next time i just want to tell him while making out & geting to the point that i want him to hurt me i want him to be rouge with me like total different end of the spectrum