Am I being dramatic?

The other night my husband and I got in an argument. We just had a miscarriage and I think I care more than he does. My hormones have literally been all over the place. Well the other night he told me I'm psychotic and need bipolar medicine. Keep in mind I am a great communicator but when I communicate he literally shuts me out and just says 'k'

So I just brushed it under the rug. The next evening he gets home I was literally exhausted our baby wasn't feeling good and had been crying all day. So when he got home I handed him the baby and had to have 5 minutes of peace and quiet so I took a quick bath so I can come back to life. He was mad at me also because I communicated to him he treats our baby different then how he treats his eldest from a previous marriage. He did not want to hear that. So he tells me I seriously can't stand you anymore. I brush it off and go to bed.

Sooooo fast forward to last night we are in bed and I calmly say "did you mean it when you told me you can't stand me anymore?" He said shut up. I said I'm trying to communicate don't push me away. He said sometimes I can't stand you anymore but I'm living and doing this for our child. I said so are you telling me you're not in love with me anymore? He says you are so dramatic. Then he begins to open up and tell me he hates when he comes home and I hand him the baby. He hates how I told him he treats the kids differently. He hates the way I been acting. And if I loved him I wouldn't act like a "nut job"

I'm seriously so sad to hear him tell me all this and I used to cry when he said hurtful things to me and last night was the first night I did not shed a tear. He said me telling you your psychotic isn't mean it's me saying the truth?!? Like what,!? I can't communicate or say my feelings with out being told I'm dramatic of psycho.