***I apologize its a bit long but I'm giving details and everything. Hope it's worth reading...

(Gonna call him Bob, just bc.)

back story: Bob has to live w/ me and my family (parents, my baby sis and me) bc of personal reasons. I'm 14, he doubles my age and my parents work almost everyday and me and my sis have to stay with Bob in the afternoons most days till my mom gets home (5-7pm). Bob gets out of work @4pm, which is when my dad goes to work. Bob started talking to me about sex and he asks me things like "Do you wear thongs?, Are you a virgin?". At first I thought it was low key cool bc I dont really have anyone older to talk about that w/ so I went with the flow.

The thing is that he was planning to record me while I showered.

The day before this happened, Bob Snapchatted me, "What if when I get out of work, you get in the shower while I take care of ur sis and then I shower?" Which I responded, "lol". I now realize that I should've kept my distance bc at this point I feel like it would sound rude if I said no or blew off the conversation.

So thankfully, my dad was off that day and I showered before he got home. Later that day, he Snaps me, "Why didnt you wait for me?" so I Lol'ed at that too. He sort of insists that I shower when he's there. At this point I get the idea that he's up to something.

The next day, Bob gets home and my dad goes to work🙄. He tells me go shower. I just go like "ughhh" BUT he's like "I'm gonna use the restroom 1st" so he goes & when he comes out, he opens the door & then flushes the toilet... 🤦 (meaning he didnt even go)

AS I GO IN THE RESTROOM HE TELLS ME, "I just left my phone charging there, just dont move it and dont get water on it" I was just like..

So I'm just like... "why are you charging it here??"🤔😬 Bob goes, " Thats where the charger was..." *3 secs of silence* ... "here I'll just take it" & he took it, I showered, then he showered and the day went on.

THIS DUDE MADE THIS SOO OBVIOUS... He turned his phone "vertically" like, he put it against the wall w the back camera facing the shower.

I Literally check the bathroom before I use it for anything. I am so annoyed by him at this point and I still have like 1 more week until he moves out.

Opinions?