Sex after LIS surgery...

I have looked all over the internet for the answer to this question and I just can't find anything. I'm too embarrassed to ask my doctor about this, so I was hoping I could get some input on here.

Two weeks ago I received a Lateral Internal Sphincterotomy and a Fissurectomy due to a chronic anal fissure. It's healing nicely and other than pain with BMs, I'm doing well post-op. I'm just starting to go crazy. I want to take care of myself and let everything heal, but I am beyond sexually frustrated. My boyfriend has been so understanding and supportive, but I know he is struggling too.

I was wondering if anyone has experienced this and has a suggestion of a time frame of when it's safe to start having sex again... of course I'll wait as long as I have to, but the last thing I want is to be waiting when I could've been enjoying myself!