Is it just me or is your baby shower or idea of your baby shower stressful 😬 long story short my aunt had mentioned having one for me and I didn't hear anything until recently about it. One minute she loves me and he next she can't stand me. She has had a rough couple years and is on Meds. She can also be flakey. My fiancé and I were talking about throwing our own because it will be less stressful and will be what we want. I decided I wanted a jack and Jill shower. For one I am scared of my aunt because she flips a switch in an instant! So I was thinking of having her do a family shower and do jack and Jill with friends. I'm just so stressed and scared to tell her. She could be fine but then again she could go off! I'm just unnecessarily stressed out about her reaction and I can't take it! She doesn't have much room and I have a relatively large family so there's no way a joint shower would even fit. She has room for maybe 5 cars and nothing nearby for parking. She also lives out of the way for the rest of family.

Im just stressed and I know I shouldn't be. Sorry for jumping around 😬 I just don't know what to do!