tried weed for the first time...hated it and wish I knew why i felt that way

hello, weed is now legal, so I thought I might as well try it for the first time. my husband is a very experienced weed smoker. he smokes and I don't even realize he is high. so I thought he would be great to show me all about this "amazing thing" I was so excited to try it and get to understand him and what he enjoys....it was horrible!!! I felt like I was floating, I lost all peripheral vision, and I could not walk. I tried to brush my teeth and I could hardly get toothpaste on the brush. I then like blacked out and next thing I knew, my husband was speaking Spanish, which he doesn't know, so I have no idea why I heard him in Spanish. I literally kept blacking out. I could not connect dots. I then got super nauseous and dizzy. two things I can not stand. then I started crying telling my husband I wanted it to go away. and he just kept telling me that I was fine (which I absolutely HATE when I am not all messed up) so then I just got pissed off at him. basically, why did I feel this way? I so badly wanted to enjoy this with him, but it was so awful! UPDATE: I know it was pure because he grew it and I used a bong and I did it only once