okay this is ganna be a long one

I met this "guy" on tinder (I'll explain the quotes later) and after a few days of talking we were very interested in meeting and making out and I immediately noticed he was different sweeter than most guys a good different. on his tinder it said gender queer and at the time I though it would just be another hook up so I didn't care. we met up on Friday and had a great time . i was nervous when I saw him and I was talking out loud about how awkward I felt and then he kissed me and just sparks omg and we had a hard make out session in the rain and he felt me up but it was sooo hot and felt amazing and i returned the favor and we walked back and made out some more and he couldn't stop calling me beautiful and I fell for him and he fell for me we are already using the "L" word. I'm feeling things for him I've never felt before and in two weeks we are going on a date and I'm staying with him overnight ;). here's the problem. this might actually turn into something and I don't know if I can deal with the gender queer thing and I'm normally very open minded but I need a man but idk how I'd feel if my boyfriend was only that half the time. how my family and friends think scares me too but I'm falling for him and fast he's perfect for me . Any advice??