Baby Kisses

Priscilla

So I got into an argument with my mom and my grandma yesterday. I told them once my daughter is born (I'm 37 weeks) I don't want anyone kissing or touching her face. There are a couple private reasons as to why I don't want specific people in my family near her face. But in general, I don't think it's safe because the baby can get sick easily. Plus I have rosacea and eczema so my skin is super sensitive and I can imagine that my daughter might also have sensitive skin. My family gave me a horrible attitude when I asked them to stay away from her face. They told me that it was completely ridiculous and that it's basically impossible for people to not kiss her. They said that everyone will want to hold her and be close to her. But I made her and I feel like I should have a say! I have the biggest family and I don't want to be passing my baby around to a ridiculous amount of people. I just don't feel comfortable. My mom made the comment "it's your first baby, you don't really understand that rules like that don't actually work. Wait till your second baby, you'll be passing him/her around to everyone!" I'm upset because I thought they would be more supportive. Also I'm a super big germaphobe but I'm trying my best to slowly let that go because I know it's going to be hard with a newborn. Anybody have any issues with their family not being understanding/supportive about this? :(