I had the IUD put in over a year ago, after I had my youngest daughter. I thought this would be there right one for me because I suck at taking the pills (ALWAYS forgetting to take it on time) and I'm not about to have a needle in my damn arm (scared to death of needles). so I thought this would be easier.... I thought wrong. Since I've had this thing, my period went from 4 days to8 or 9 days, cramps are very painful, when I'm not on my period I still experience some pains, gained a lot of weight, and I can't even have sex the way I want to with my husband because everytime we do, he ALWAYS hits the damn thing, which causes pain and a major turn off. should I just take this thing out? I'm kinda scared about it????