My boyfriend hasn't come visit me since being in the hospital. (I had a bladder and kidney infection) that got pretty serious both were filled with blood and pus, and I had to have everything drained. I stayed the night at the hospital and then went home the next morning and now I have to stay at home from work for a week to recover. It's been three days since the hospital and he hasn't come to see me at all, he asks how I'm feeling everyday over text. But I don't feel like that's enough. I wasn't even that upset till my mother mentioned it. She came over to see how I was doing, asked why he hadn't done anything to help me around the house and I told her he hadn't been over yet and she got very upset. She lives in a different state other wise she would of helped me sooner. We've been dating for almost 7 months and were best friends for 2 years before dating. It's been a very serious relationship. He's pretty oblivious at times, but how can you at least not offer to come see me? I don't know, it's hurt me a little. And to top it off I got my period during all of this, so of course I'm PMSing pretty hard. So thoughts? Am I overreacting? I mean a co worker came in to see how I was doing and he can't? I plan to talk to him, I just prefer to talk about these things in person.