How long after having a baby did you wait to have sex

I had my little girl 2 weeks ago, and I had stitches so I'm still pretty sore and tender down below.. however my husband keeps making sly comments like ' he's desperate for sex' and he not had anything in ages.. I feel like he's pressuring me a bit and the last thing on my mind is to have sex! I'm

Scared hes going to get fed up and cheat on me I'm a very insecure person with my body etc already so I just feel really shit in general! But I feel I should wait till I'm ready