Is my madness justified?

So my boyfriend and I are getting a hotel room which is almost like a spa for my birthday. I asked him to write a list on what to bring to it while I hang out with my friends today. On the list of course he wrote "heels" "button up" "robe". I'm annoyed considering it's my birthday but he wants me to bring this stupid outfit on my birthday and I just wanted a nice relaxing spa hotel day with him but instead I'm asked to bring a dumb button up and heels to dress up for him when I just wanna wear sweats and no makeup 😂 maybe I'll be called dramatic but ladies it is annoying to dress up for your man on your one special day of the year