My SO insists on using condoms because he doesn't want kids, at least not yet, we've been together for 3+ years and are monogamous, so I don't see a problem with not using them, especially since we both prefer the feeling of going raw, we'll usually start out that way and then put a condom on when he feels like he might be getting close. Lately he's been making comments about how much the condom feeling sucks and I'm like 'you did it, I didn't tell you to put it on'

Edit: I forgot to mention I am on birth control, the condoms are just for extra protection, so all of you judge-y McJudgersons can stop saying I'm being irresponsible on my end. (Nor was I complaining about the condom use, I was complaining about his complaining about the condom use)