Anyone else go through this from time to time? Just curious to see.. during sex my boyfriend kind of fell out of the act and became soft, now- the bedroom got extremely hot, he was on top for sometime and got tired. He has been sick with stuffy nose and has a cold and a tooth ache- not feeling well (I know my poor guy :( ....) I just want an option of is it me or is he just not in the mood because he doesn't feel good?

I hate when he doesn't finish and then gets soft. Makes me feel like I'm not doing my job