Okay so my SO and I have been together for 4years and our sex life has gone from sex any and every where all the time. To once or twice every couple weeks. He used to do things like suck on my neck and kiss me and touch me all over sex used to be amazing he used to make me want him more than I've ever wanted him and sex. We used to do it in the car or in a field in every room in the house all type of position but I never liked being on top but sometimes he got me so horny that I wanted to be on top. He doesn't do that anymore. He doesn't kiss me or suck my neck while we do it anymore he doesn't touch me all over and make me want to be in top anymore. The things that turn me on the most he doesn't do. He said it's because a while back I told him he didn't like doing some of those thing and I told him he didn't have too. I don't really remember that like why would I tell him not to do the things that turn me on the most. But if I did tell him that like how do I get that back I keep telling him but i beat around the bush with it because I don't know how to flat out tell him. Our sex drive are so opposite now like right now I'm horny as fu** and I want to make love to him so bad but if I go and try to get it some he'd think I'm going to play with it and leave him hard becAuse I don't respond to him just expects me to be horny on command or just not want to at all.