boring sex

so my bf has been not really wanting to have sex lately. he finally came to me and told me he didnt want to because it was boring. he said that i dont communicate enough and i take forever to orgasm and he gets bored quick. im not sure what to do i try to communicate but im so insecure its hard. and everything he does feels SO good but i can never orgasm. only from clitoral stimulation...please help my sex life i dont know what to do!