Want to try to conceive after mc... hubby off sex


We lost our baby at 17 weeks in June and I'm now desperate to conceive again but every time we have sex my oh can't come. He says I'm putting too much pressure on him but I haven't mentioned having a baby other than to ask if he wants to try again back in July to which he said yes. I'm now feeling so sad and rejected as well as the continuing empty feeling of no longer being pregnant I'm not sure what to do?

I'm thinking I just wait for him to come to me for sex but its so hard when I know I'm ovulating!!