Sorry for anon but meh. My fiancé is best man in an upcoming wedding in vegas. We are both going in November, which on a separate note ruins all my going home for the holidays plans which I'm also extremely upset about, for this wedding. We have gone through this past year (first year of our baby's life) with A LOT of tension. This is because of a bachelor party he went to when my son was three months old and a lot of incredibly inappropriate things happened which I later was informed of. This turned into a solid year of me questioning our relationship, gave me massive depression, and left me with a lot of questions about whether it was worth it to continue. After a solid year I have gotten over the anxiety and depression that I suffered because of this event and I know that I need to relax a bit. He's absolutely wonderful 98 percent of the time. He provides, he's loving, great father. But I finally got over not obsessing over our problems a year later. I feel like I'm healing and I'm finally growing enough to become close to him again. Well, now he has to plan a bachelor party for his friend. His friends are the most misogynistic human beings I have ever met (and I've known plenty of men). They literally treat women as a sexual object first and.. rarely even as a human being. And now he wants to go two months before the wedding to vegas for a bachelor party with these men. I have never been controlling or crazy with any men ive dated but seeing how his friends treat women and how he acts with them.. and having me just have gotten over this depression and severe anxiety to start to heal and make our relationship good again.. i don't know what to do. I don't want to be the psycho controlling girlfriend. I also know this would cause me fall back into depression and anxiety. I'm so conflicted. And I'm posting this after a drink or two.. so anon. Please give any advice