Been married to this asshole for almost 3 years . We have a 4 month old son I'm a SAHM (he agreed that it was fine with him) now after getting laid off and being a SAHM to our 4 month old son he talks a mountains of shit to me. He tells me that he wants to quit his job and stay at home all day like I do. I told him taking care of a baby all day is not just feeding them and changing them like he assumes it is.. he told me I'll quit and you go work while I'm a stay at home dad.. I told him why tf did he tell me that it was ok if he's gonna bitch at me about... always saying I'm paying for everything , you don't pay for nothing. I actually clean the house , make his angry ass breakfast and coffee early in the morning, wake him up to get ready for work(he's a big boy he can wake hisself up!)everyday the same thing fighting about this situation... he told me no guy is down to let his women stay at home while he's working... ok asshole leave me then ! Which I can't leave him cuz he threatens to take baby from me.. he tells me that he's tired... bro I know what tired your a fkn parent get tf over it! Parenting doesn't mean you just sleep sleep sleep sleep .. nah you have to feed , change , hold baby, play with baby etc. I'm the only one staying up all night to take care of baby while he sleeps.. like come on you moron you don't even wake up to help with baby... he's so self fish... I told him to divorce me than if he's not happy... I also told him go find a bitch who will work work work and not take care of your kids than... 🖕🖕idk I'm just tired of him.. like he shouldn't have agreed on me staying at home he should of just paid a baby sitter 2500 a month instead.. anyways sore for the long rant.. any other mamas going through something similar