Long story but last year we had a friend of mine living with us and I was just at a point where I didn't wanna share the house anymore and just wanted my family alone so we asked my friend to move out. It was hard but we have remained friends and hang out often. Soon after she moved out my husbands friend started sleeping on the couch in the man cave. It started out as a night here or there and then grew to more and more. After a few months my husband asked if he could move some of his things in and stay with us in the man cave temporarily while he got his affairs in order to get another place. I reluctantly agreed and said that only if it was temporary and he cleaned up after himself. Well that was 7 months ago and I am at my max. The man cave /garage looks like a pig pen and smells like ball sack, he never cleans anything, money has gone missing from my purse and all this guy does is play video games all fucken day or sleeps. Worse is this guy brings his brothers over all the time then I have 2-3 stinky guys to smell and I have had it. My husband doesn't wanna kick him out. Instead he wants to "motivate him to be better". I get it but this guy is 30 and only a woman with a serious mission could possibly change him because he is such a lazy dumb fuck up. Now my girl friend who moved out is upset with me because she has seen him staying with us and thinks we replaced her with him which is not the case. How do I get my husband to kick this leech out???? My threats to put his shit on the curb haven't worked and I don't know what to do. I almost kicked one of his brothers out the other day because he started saying pro nationist/nazi stuff and i said "stop, think very carefully what you are about to say next." the brother got  the death stare from my husband and leech and shut up but it for real almost went down the other day. Ain't no way I am gonna deal with leech and on top of it Nazi brother. My husband just wants to help his friend but the new baby will be here in 6 weeks or less and I am fucken over all of this!!!