I grew up in an ultra Christian conservative house hold and was told certain things were good and certain things are bad. Now that I'm an adult...I'm confused...because now some things are acceptable like divorce and such but not sexuality...I get that sexuality effects a lot of different areas but why is it sooooooooo wrong. Can I not love Jesus and be drawn to women? I think part of the issue is that as soon as you hear the word "lesbian" you think lesbian sex...why is that? Anyways...I'm not making any sense at the moment...can anyone help me out with what I'm trying to say?