Now I know everyones go to advice is to just leave someone if they cheat. But not all of us are strong enough to do that yet. And there must be some of you out there who have stayed.

I literally can't imagine my life without him in it. So I decided to give him a second chance.

But since I found out last night, I haven't been able to eat barely anything, my chest constantly feels heavy and my stomach sick and I keep getting the shakes. I did manage about 4 hours of broken sleep.

But just from anyone who has stayed with a cheater before, how did you deal with it? Or what advice do you have? This is my first time and I've never felt so conflicted with everyone telling me to do one thing but my heart refusing to let me.

Advice, experiences? I'd be grateful just to feel like I'm not the only person who can't let go.

Also we live together and he moved away from his family to live with me so he can't really go anywhere and we are forced to still see eachother all the time.