Liking two guys at the same time?

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Have you ever liked two guys at the same time ? What did you do to chose?  I feel torn between and can't seem to make up my mind about who to choose .-. Help!

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yes, in high school I started dating a guy, a few months later I met another guy who I became friends with, he asked me to go to prom with him, just as friends but he was sooo much more charming and sweet than my boyfriend, I started to gain an interest in him but ignored it the best I could and just stuck with friendship... this guy waited patiently and never suggested anything other than friendship but, my god I could FEEL it, something was different with him... I can't believe I tried to stay away from it...
 3 years later I was still with my boyfriend, had started college and began to realize how unhappy I was with many parts of my life, my boyfriend was a nice guy but his family was horrible and I was so sick of the bullcrap that came along with dating him, he was still dependent on his parents in every way so that wasn't about to change anytime soon, so I told him I needed a break. time to figure out what I wanted, time for him to grow up a little. whatever... he was upset but understood he couldn't give me what I was ready for.... a few weeks later I got a letter in the mail... the charming friend had joined the military, we had not talked in several months so he had no idea I had broke up with the first guy.... his letter said there were two things he really missed about home, the calm before a big storm and me.... 😍... he was supposed to be home in 2 weeks and wanted to know if I was free for dinner and a movie, he would like to catch up and had something he needed to tell me... 2 weeks later he picked me up and when I got in the car he gave me a gift... it was a gorgeous diamond and ruby necklace he had gotten while in France. he said he thought of me when he saw it and it was a belated birthday gift... I was on cloud 9... he was very respectful during the date, we had a great time, during the (scary) movie he held me but never pushed for anything else... when he dropped me off at home that night I asked what it was he had wanted to talk to me about. he said he needed me to know that he was in love with me and that if there was ever a chance of us being together then he would do anything to make it happen (he still didnt know I wasnt with the boyfriend anymore)... I kissed him and said "then I'm yours".... ladies, this man was sooo happy, he picked me up and kissed me again, sat me down and then said "but wait what about..." you could see the elation, the confusion, the disbelief, the love, all of it was written on his face. no one had ever looked at me like that before..... less than 6 months later we were married... that was 12 years ago and we are still happily married, expecting a child and loving our life together... the old boyfriend eventually found someone too, he is married with a child of his own and came to his own realization of how difficult his family can be so he dosent see them much anymore. it took him a while but he grew up and found his own way. just follow your heart, what's meant to be will work out, if it dosent feel right then its not. true love literally FEELS sooo different... its an intensity that never goes away, if that's not how he makes you feel then he's not the one and if that means you have to like 2 or 3 people at a time until you find it then so be it!

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Try 2 brothers. That shit got heavy and I lost both in the end... But I say go with your heart.

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I dated them both at the same time and that did not end well but I was still friends with benefits with both of them even after that. Don't take my advice on this tho. Lol

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When you're dating multiple people it is definitely possible to fall for more than one or develop feelings. 
I would just keep dating, choose activities that 'test' them on key things you admire in your ideal partner, get to know their friends family, their living environment, their lifestyle. All these things can help you figure out how compatible you really are along with the attraction you already feel.

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Why'd I think it said licked.

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You might mot have liked the first guy enough if you started to like another guy, that's your clue there. 
Once you truly like someone, no one better can come along