me and my partner and lg live on the cost of worthing , my partner got a new job more money but the problem is its in devon 4 and half hours drive from where we live hes took the job without realy asking how i feel and hes leaving on the 30th , he wants me to move there but i really enjoy my life where i am i have all my family around and friends i work nigh shifts 36 hours a week i been at my job for 7 years , i really dont know what to do he always wants to do what he wants and never thinks about anyone else i said to him how dose he think our daughter will cope only seeing him when hes back for 2 days a week but all he said was im doing it for the money so you meaning me can go out shopping and treat myself and our daughter so she have to learn her dad wont be there How am i going hold a 36 hour job a 2 year old and a 3 bed house over my head i dont know what to do